my kimchi amour

wokie...im watching the results show now...now they r crapping..haha!juz wanna know who will be the top2..hmm..i juz watched the SI extra...boohoo!!!JOAKIM's trailer is nicer la!but they showed a little of it la..aiyo!!!back at hangout,they were fans that waited for him..back at home,the crowd is bigger also la!haiyo!!y they nvr show???joakim's was super short man,seriously..haizzz...they didnt even show what joakim has gt to say...his mum n dad talked soo much also,only show little bit of it.his father has gt some wise words for the judges,n i liked it la!muz let those judges hear it la!thenn,all of us also cheered for him la!!rmb at the staircase,when he was gg up...we sang for him his father's version of my cherie amour la!damn nice la!also nvr show la!haiyooooo!!!i wanna see that very much on tv la!!!hmm..wonder if there's anyway i can get hold of the video..bluergh..thinking of it makes me sick..

my kimchi amour
u're the little one that we adore
u're the only one our heart beat for
n we know that u'll be fine..

la la la la la la
la la la la la la

nice???of course la!!!hahahaha!!!wooo!!weee!!!

oh ya...did u guys read TODAY?it's abt working women..hmm..here it is..

2 x work, 0 x gratitude
Working wives-cum-homemakers work doubly hard, husbands don’t take this into account

Letter from SHYAMA NANDAKUMAR

I WRITE this after reading a series of letters addressing the plight of working women, especially teachers. My mother is a teacher, and I feel that juggling home and work is no easy task.
Many may not share my viewpoint, but I feel that, more than the “lonely” husbands who “want their wives back”, it is the working wives-cum-homemakers who have all the stress. Men are naturally inclined to be the breadwinners and feel they have the right to go about their jobs, as it is a “professional” thing — as if teaching as a woman isn’t equally professionally demanding. The women who are really passionate about their jobs are somehow misunderstood as undermining the importance of the household and the families — or even worse, taken for granted, doomed to meet the “expectations”. The other doting family members ignore the fact that a working woman has to do double the amount of work as compared to a man or a homemaker. Sure, “her phone rings all the time” and she’s too busy to set aside time for the family, and the holidays are cut short. The men do not think twice before saying these things, but how many of them realise they own cell phones, too? Most people say the women need to “prioritise” and make sure the family isn’t ignored. Of course, nobody would sacrifice their marriage for their jobs, but some just want the women to sacrifice their jobs for their marriages. Is that fair? I hate to admit the fact that even in today’s world, where women are encouraged to go to work, there seems to be little help from within the home, not to mention the absence of encouragement in many cases.
Women who are not supported face the ultimate stress test, with a demanding job they love, a demanding household and a demanding, possessive husband.
How easy it is for men to ask their wives to quit because their jobs are “too time consuming”, not realising the fact that the women have put in their blood, sweat and tears into making it all work. The working woman suffers in silence, toiling ceaselessly, but all the husbands notice is the “fact” that the women are not devoted to the family. This is nothing but mixed-up, confused feeling of insecurity and a bursting male ego. It is selfish.

what say u???i kinda agree here..we try our very bez to u know,be a gd mother,wife n worker...hmm..men sometimes juz don understand us..hmm..not all though..if i were to get married some time later,i don think i wanna work once i hv children..hmm..i donno ehh..somehow or rather,i don wanna put my children on the hands n care of others.i wanna take care of them myself..u know..be a dedicated mom to them..make them as successful as i want them to be..as much as i want to work n reach my goals...i can only choose 1..unless i can really find someone reliable to tc of my children,bring them up the way i want them to be...but,i don think so i can..base on my personality,im very fussy and particular over such things...so yup..haha!am i thinking too far??haha!no leh..i hv set myself 2 choices..

1)if i wish to hv children,then don work..be a homemaker..
2)if i wish to hv a career,n be wat i wanna be,be very successful,then don hv children.juz concentrate on my career..

hmm..it's juz a thot n plan tho..we plan,but Allah will decide..hmm..wat abt u guys??i've talking abt it with some of my friends abt this..hmm..not many think as far as me...hah!can say that im kanjiong??don think so ba...time passes by soo quickly that u didnt realise that time is running up n u hv to make decisions..n the decision made cant be a harsh one...a lot of thot has to be put in..hmm..so yup...b4 i think abt this agn,i'd better start searching for man,to be the man of my life...muahahahahah!like real only sia me!!!hahaha!anyone out there who looks like some hot korean guys,come to me k??haha!no la..juz joking..juz crapping here...*winkz*..

ok..so tmr,my exam results wld be released...im damn scared like hell now!!!aarrgghh!!stresss!!!aarrgghhh!!i don wish that much..i juz hope that i pass ething,n i'll be very happy n contented enuff,seriously..im praying hard now...to all of u out there...gdluck too!!

to my dearest aziemah,gdluck for the Os k???i'll be waiting for the gd news from u girl!!
to all other poly students...gdluck too for ur results..
all else who r taking the exams also,which is ard the corner too,bex of luck!!study hard n smart aite??
to those working,like siti..jgn main2 lagi...nanti nk kawin mcm mane??haha!
to kak linda,im very happy for u...may Allah bless the 2 of u..aku tk sabar ni nk mkn nasi minyak kak linda..muahaha!
to the rest..u guys juz rox..hee~

ok..so..jasmine's out...i didnt cry..hahaha!who will be the next SI??no one...in my eyes..only JOAKIM...hehe..sorry ehh...sape2 yg suruh aku vote utk hady,lupakan jek la..aku tk kuasa..aku support gitu2 jek...jgn marah ehh...unless korg nk byrkan bill aku,nanti aku vote..muahahah!oops!!mampos aku!!ke ne bombard nanti...hehe...

ok la..til here...wanna watch tv...n sleep...tmr will be really100000x my last day with roger at the dept..muz enjoy myself..n for gdness sake,don sleep!!haha!seriously,i slept!ppl had to call me a few times,then only i replied..hahaha!baddie me huh??hee~ok la..i wont sleep tmr..hee~til then..tc...3 words.. =)